It is very important that a husband and wife turn to one another with open hearts so that the agape love of Christ can flow back and forth between two souls. Marriage is a ministry and if Christ is not part of your ministry satan will come in and destroy the marriage and family. We are commanded to love and be Holy like our Heavenly Father is Holy. We must help each other grow and renew our minds to that of Christ Jesus.We must remind each other we are YAHWEHS children and He ordained us  in Holy marriage. We are supposed to cleave to one another and never let go. This is how a marriage will manifest Heaven and not hell. We must obey our Heavenly Father and allow the Holy Ghost to shower our marriage with truth, light and AGAPE love that comes form God and flows into our spouse like a waterfall.
Genesis 2:24
The Creation of Woman
…23The man said, "This is now bone of my bones, And flesh of my flesh; She shall be called Woman, Because she was taken out of Man." 24For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh. 25And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed.…

Ephesians 5:31
Wives and Husbands
…30For we are members of His body. 31“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” 32This mystery is profound, but I am speaking about Christ and the church.…