Forgiveness is the most important gift we can receive from our King Jesus and the most important gift we can give to our spouse.With out forgiveness we would all end in divorce. I am not speaking to spouses who experience domestic abuse. They need to seek the police. I am speaking to the Sons and Daughters of the Most High God who obey the Holy Scriptures and want to live in agape love and peace and harmony with their beloved spouse.We must forgive when we feel offended and we must communicate every feeling with our spouse so they can see from our perspective and are not left confused.Communication is so important to a marriage and we must treat our spouse like Jesus treats them. There should be know contempt,unforgiveness,criticism,harsh speaking,screaming or yelling.We should speak to our spouse like we are speaking to a King or Queen because we are. As children of God we only respond to agape love and anything negative makes us offensive with one another. We must speak to each other like we are Royalty because we are.

Ephesians 4:26-27 - Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath:  

James 1:19-20 - Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath:
Proverbs 16:32 - [He that is] slow to anger [is] better than the mighty; and he that ruleth his spirit than he that taketh a city.

Ephesians 4:31 - Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice:
Psalms 37:8 - Cease from anger, and forsake wrath: fret not thyself in any wise to do evil.

Matthew 18:15 - Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother.

Proverbs 15:1 - A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.

Mark 11:25 - And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any: that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.